Sometimes a woman feels like she’d give up anything just to find out what makes a guy tick! The reasons why men are not willing to open books and reveal their feelings are many. It all depends on the situation and the type of relationship you are in. However, these tips will give you a good idea why.
they feel vulnerable
Most men are reluctant to bare their souls and talk about their inner feelings, emotions, fears, dreams and hopes because they feel it would leave them vulnerable. That is why they hold on to their innermost feelings and are unwilling to open up.
They are less emotional than women.
Women tend not to think about sharing their deepest feelings with the man they love. They are very emotional and want to reveal their heart’s desires as quickly as possible. However, men are not like that. They tend to abhor the idea of telling anyone their thoughts! They tend to be less emotional and more reserved.
They fear being considered fags
Sometimes a man feels that if he told a woman everything – his hopes, fears, dreams and aspirations – then he might come across as a sissy or even a fool. He feels embarrassed at the thought of giving voice to his feelings easily. This makes him reluctant to share thoughts of him even with the woman he is dating.
They need to feel independent.
It is natural for men to feel independent and “strong.” The thought of venting your deepest feelings and insecurities would make you just as “weak and vulnerable” as anyone else! This natural drive to remain independent and stronger than anyone else will prevent you from being too open.
They need to trust first
Women are carried away by their hunches and instincts. If she feels like talking, she will! This is not so with men who need to trust first! Only if he feels he can trust a woman enough to let her know everything about him will she open up and discover her soul. If he doesn’t fully trust her, the wild horses wouldn’t make him confess!
They need to be convinced of your feelings.
Just as a man needs to first implicitly and sincerely trust his woman before he can open up and share his feelings, he also needs to know if she loves him deeply and trusts him. Only then would he be encouraged and motivated to tell his personal things.
They are reluctant to surrender
Men are naturally more reluctant to give themselves up because they need to know that by doing so, they won’t face any kind of rejection. Unless and until they are convinced that they will be accepted and loved no matter what, they will refuse to open up.