What exactly does John Alexander’s How to Become an Alpha Male teach you? And how effective are the methods being taught. I have read the guide and am now writing my own thoughts on what I think of it. In this How to Become an Alpha Male review, you will see what this guide is really about.
I wonder why throughout our lives our parents don’t bother to teach us how to attract girls. It seems like we always get advice from our friends. But usually the advice turns out to be useless since they themselves do not know what to do. Because most of the time they get their advice from others who don’t have a clue.
So almost everything we learn about how to attract girls comes from unknown sources. Or unknown experts who have little field experience and no credentials as to why we should even listen to them.
Then there are the movies. Those do more harm than good when it comes to getting the woman of your dreams. In most movies, the guy is portrayed as being very nice to the woman. And finally, after showing her affection for her and showering her with flowers, he finally gets the woman. But that again proves useless.
And what to say about those who receive advice from their mothers or friends. What do they tell you to do? Be kind, treat a woman well and shower her with flowers.
You probably now realize that being the nice guy doesn’t work. he never has. You will end up being in the friend zone with her. And this is the most you will get with a woman for being nice. Which isn’t bad, unless you want to hear her tell you about the jerk she wants out of it with.
John teaches how to become an alpha male. A guy who really tried the methods. He was a nice ex-boy who he saw as the dream girl he wanted nothing more than to be friends. In his book he explains all the myths and lies you’ve been told about how to attract women. One of them about being the good guy.
You’ll find out why she didn’t choose you by reading this book.
What you will learn if you haven’t already. It’s just that being the nice guy won’t help you win over the ladies. And doing things that represent that, like having dinner, courting them, and buying expensive things for her, doesn’t work.
In fact, what was shocking was that this type of behavior was seen by women as manipulative. A sleazy attempt to get her into bed. Even if that wasn’t your intention.
John Alexander then goes on to explain why girls seem to be attracted to jerks. But you don’t have to be a jerk to get a woman. It’s more about being somewhere in the middle where you have the jerk qualities that attract women and also the good guy qualities of treating women well.
At its core, the book is about how to become a man. The same thing that girls want. He is not a cowardly crawling at her feet who eagerly does anything to please her.
The first section delves into the myths that tell us about women. And it also covers how women think. Everything is written in an easy to read format that is easy to follow.
Then it’s about how to become the man women want. And that is done by working on your inner game. Once you fix this, the path to attracting women seems to become clearer.
What I liked most about John’s book is that he wrote it step by step. Starting from the first contact and giving you some examples of opening with her. To the point of being in her bedroom with her. But it doesn’t have to be about seducing her.
If you want to learn to be in a relationship with her. Then you can read the last few pages of the guide as John gives you tips on how to have a healthy relationship with the woman of her dreams. And how to maintain a happy relationship with her.
In short, you will learn a lot about how to be in a relationship with the woman you want. And it doesn’t have to imply being someone you’re not. No pickup lines, no gimmicks, no hypnosis. How to become an alpha male is pure content of being a man.