Blindfolded sex is one of the easiest ways to spice up your sex life. It’s so simple that even the shyest person can try this without fear of being silly or awkward. In fact, playing with a blindfold during sex is one of the best ways for shy couples to introduce kinkiness into the bedroom.
First prepare your blindfolds, you can use a scarf, a tie, a handkerchief or almost anything that covers your eyes.
Here are some tips on how to start incorporating wearing blindfolds during sex.
1. Set the mood. Put on some nice music so the two of you can relax. Slow dancing helps initiate intimacy.
2. Start with a game to warm things up. They are blindfolded as they eat desert. Since they are both blind, they will rely on their other senses to help them with the task. Focus on your sense of touch and use your finger to feel where your mouth is, where the bowl of ice cream is, and so on. Be playful and spontaneous. Don’t be afraid to put ice cream on other parts of your body.
3. With the blindfold still on, try to clean each other. Use your fingers and tongue to find where the two ice creams have spread. Touch each other’s face and body and cleanse each other. This will inevitably lead to kissing.
4. Still blindfolded, lead each other into the bedroom or if you want to continue whatever you’re doing in that same spot, feel free to do so.
5. Undress slowly and don’t be afraid to lose your inhibitions. Imagine having phone sex… you can narrate what you are about to do and what you are already doing in a very graphic way. Don’t be shy as your partner can’t see you. Let all your other senses take over the moment.
6. With both of you blindfolded, you will enjoy finding each other’s body parts, making the experience more erotic and tension-building.
Couples who have tried playing blindfolded say that it actually helps to let out the inner tiger in anyone. If your partner is not a complainer, expect him to be more vocal and confident with his moans and cries, as he is free to escape to a land where shyness does not exist.