Do shy women fantasize about sex? If so… HOW so? How do reserved, quiet or aloof women express themselves backstage when the bedroom doors are closed? Does a woman’s personality reflect how she will be in bed? For example…does a very outgoing, assertive and aggressive personality translate to a woman who is more likely to be like that behind the sheets?
Do any of these questions sound familiar to you? If you’re like the vast majority of men who aren’t sure what a woman’s personality really has to do with her sexual temperament, the good news is that you’re NOT alone! Many women struggle to compartmentalize the different areas of our passionate personalities and what is true in one area of life may NOT reflect as much about another.
With that in mind, let’s take a look at 3 very common sexual fantasies that many quiet, shy, or even bookish women admit when asked.
1 – Sexual Power Fantasies
Many quiet or more reserved women on a day-to-day basis admit to having powerful fantasies of “dominance” or control where THEY rule. Of course, this shouldn’t come as much of a surprise, as what’s missing in one area of their lives…can be made up for when the lights go out and they can regain a sense of control over people. around them (especially if that shyness translates into feeling powerless in real life!)
2 – MORE sexual submission!
Believe it or not, many shy women also fantasize about being dominated in bed! So someone who feels quiet and reserved and is “made ridiculous” by the world in “real” life, ALSO gets turned on by perpetuating those roles in bed! Long story short, a lot of women are comfortable being quiet…and actually find that playing a very shy and submissive role is HUGE too!
3 – Spicy Conversation/Communication Overdose
Another interesting sexual fantasy shared by many women, both shy and outgoing, is a LOT of talking during sex. But where it is expected of women who like to talk in real life, often a very shy, unassuming or even introverted woman will become HYPER talkative in bed, often using words that would make the average sailor blush :- )
And of course there are also many more fetishes and fantasies. What have you experienced? Do you think shy women turn you on more… and why? Do you think a shy girl who goes WILD in bed is more exciting than average? The truth is that sex is such a complicated, creative, and FUN subject of study, and fantasies… especially for women, are my favorite subject to explore!