We’ve all received emails from people on Myspace or other online dating websites asking simple and direct questions …
“Are you real?”
“Do you really look like your photos?”
“Are you really what you say on your profile?”
I have received more and more of these emails from my radio show subscribers who constantly complain about receiving emails from guys like this. These women get offended and pissed off, and I know many women who have responded like this!
Honestly, you shouldn’t. Because you, not the people who respond to you, are putting that doubt, suspicion, misconception, and thinking too good to be true in their little heads. Honestly, this is one of the first things I ask a lot online; Many times I have been royally burned by crooked and dishonest women who are pathological liars.
And spawn of the devil!
Well, I don’t officially know if they were devils spawn, just assuming!
Many websites, especially Myspace, make this not the case. You can do many things to assure people that you really see how your images are presented, and that the way you really think and act is really God’s honest truth.
Over the past 2 and a half years I have been to more online dating sites than anyone else in the world researching over 35 different online dating and social media sites. I have compiled a list of 7 things you can do on Myspace or other online dating sites to prove it is real.
Some dating sites don’t allow you to do some of the things I suggest, so most of this list is specifically aimed at Myspace profiles.
Step 1
Have some non-professional photos of yourself doing the activities you enjoy, photos of your family, friends, or pets in your main image area. First of all, I need to clarify this point: you should definitely have professional photos of yourself online!
I think if you are serious about online marketing to find interesting new people to hang out or meet, then you always want to do your best and look your best.
And that is not superficial; that’s just common sense. Regardless of what you think, believe or feel. Appearance matters a lot to people, and sex sells in this society!
You can bury your head in the sand, pout, whine, moan, groan, whine, curse, or even go through the mail and kill people (just make sure you’re not in that part of town when you get it right!) Unfair that is, join a cult, take off your hair, go goth or whatever you want to do or say to deal with your issues about society and the way the world is when it comes to physical beauty!
But that’s the way it is and always will be, I imagine. It’s been this way since the caveman days, and not much has changed since then! They have even scientifically proven that people actually think that the most attractive people are generally smarter than people who are not as physically attractive!
Said some professional photos, not all, big difference. People want to see the real you, blemishes and all. I got some breaking news, you are not perfect and you never will be, so stop trying to give the world the impression that you are physically!
When all you have (not some) are perfect professional photos of yourself on your profile, you come across other people as extremely insecure, self-absorbed, and people usually think that you are using fake photos of someone else!
No real self-respecting man or woman wants to be with a trophy bimbo or mimbo (airhead male model / bodybuilder!) Who is so obsessed with their looks, their image, and themselves. The reason is really simple math.
If you put 100% of your time, energy, mind and heart into yourself, your image and your physical appearance. Guess what … You have 0% of yourself to give someone else or accept someone else !! Unless, of course, the other person is exactly like this, then they are a perfect “shallow as a mud puddle” match.
I have been burned many times. Trust me, great lighting, makeup, and a great photographer can make a dog look like Pamela Anderson. Be honest about how it looks and just throw at least a few non-professional photos, okay.
Step 2
Write a meaningful and thoughtful profile about yourself, what you like, what you don’t like, what you love, hopes, aspirations, dreams, what turns you on, what turns you off, etc.
I’ve seen anorexia models meatier than most people’s profiles and what they write or don’t write about themselves online! Do you want to know why most people don’t talk nonsense on their profiles? Shhh … it’s a secret.
Because they have nothing or almost nothing to say; they do not know who they are or what they want for themselves and for others. They have very little between their ears, so they throw their glam shots and wait for the same person who cuts the cookies, a dime, drooling uncontrollably, and an unoriginal person all over the world to make sexual remarks and comments. based solely on your physique. images.
They have very little else to offer a person, so all they can do is put as many photos as they can and write almost nothing on their profiles. This obviously feeds and caresses their huge egos that are the size of P. Diddy, Paris Hilton, Donald Trump, Shaquille O’Neil, and all the rap artists in the world put together!
Keep your eyes peeled for the second part of this article with steps 3-7.