So, you have found your millionaire match. Good work. No doubt they spent the night drinking, dining, and finalizing plans to spend the winter together in Barbados. He didn’t seem even remotely interested in anyone else. He told you that his down-to-earth family roots have kept him grounded. He said you were amazing.
Having spent more time dating millionaires than brushing my teeth, I’m going to tell you exactly how to make this man fall in love (instead of just “falling in love”) with you. I will also tell you the things that you will inevitably do naturally that will cause you to lose your man.
1. Don’t let your initial spark go out by being too available. The first thing you are going to experience is an unshakeable euphoria. The time you spent with him was undeniably magical. Between refills of champagne from the glass, they both laughed and chatted about how similar they are. On anyone’s account, sparks flew. The problem here is that you will feel “too comfortable” for your own good. Remember that this man is the hyperbole of desirable, and every other woman he knows feels exactly as you do. Being busy! If you’re not busy, fake it! He returns her calls a day or two late. Don’t apologize for being too busy…a woman like you is expected to be busy.
2. Don’t get into conversations about how much the two of you “clicked.” This is the typical maneuver of a playboy. If he wants to talk about your “connection,” do your best to change the subject to something more neutral. If you can, change the topic to something fun you’ve been doing lately. Never let him know that you have been bathing in his words. Resist the urge, however much it prompts you. He gets that from everyone else.
3. Never, ever, ever talk about money. Never. Under no circumstance. If he mentions it, change the subject. He is testing you or subconsciously testing you. Do not do it. Ever.
4. Kiss him passionately, but don’t go to bed with him. I can’t stress this enough. If he has already done it, you better stop reading this because he has given up the power of it. You are not wife material to him. You are now a future booty call. If you need an excuse to leave early, make one up. Better yet, come up with something interesting-sounding, like early skydiving lessons.
Now for the sweet honey nectar. How to make him fall in love with you.
1. Being easily amused, but not overtly impressed. Millionaires are used to meeting women who are gold diggers and it’s so off-putting. They have become accustomed to spotting women who want them in exchange for their money for their easiest gift: nervous/bulging eyes. If you order caviar for $2,500, go ahead and be visibly excited (he’ll love that), but don’t freak out and act coy. Get excited and show it off, then change the subject from what you’re buying to something meaningful.
2. Be silly. Never be in a bad mood. Don’t act like a princess. Millionaires love to spoil women for attention, but that won’t make them fall for you. Be fun, be quirky. Don’t be a princess. Be the girl you are when you have a sleepover with your friends.
3. Be financially secure. Whether you are or not, it gives the impression that you have life by the horns. (Just to reiterate, never actually talk about money.) You never want him to get the impression that you’re trying to get him to pay your bills (hopefully, you’re not anyway). Financial security is attractive, especially for millionaires.
3. Always hang up the phone first. This is an easy one.
4. Make him do something he’s never done before. Whether trying a new food or experiencing something in the city, I would never have it any other way. Maybe even a walk in an unknown park. A millionaire is not used to being out of his element. And just like for you, new is always exciting.
Congratulations on your new find. Without a doubt, this millionaire may fall in love with you. It benefits you that all the other girls he meets make the mistakes I mentioned above. Best of luck!