Hey girls, today I’m going to talk to you about how to get him back in his arms, before he goes ahead and finds another girl.
Relationships end all the time, I have to know because I’ve helped dozens of people in your situation before, and guess what? Many broken relationships are mended!
If your ex boyfriend means something to you, something you don’t want to let go of, then you need to read every word of this article.
I am a guy myself, I know how the male mind works and believe me, at the end of this article I will show you how to get into your ex boyfriend’s head to make him beg you to come over. back.
Ok, so the first thing I want to tell you is a huge mistake I see girls make who don’t know how to get me to come back to them. You see, they try to use logic to persuade their ex boyfriend that they are the best for them.
One of my close friends split up with his girlfriend a few months ago, and his ex was totally in love with him, so much so that he kept contacting me to try and persuade him to get back together with her!
She was doing it totally the wrong way. She would send him essay after essay on social media and text messages about how much he meant to her and how she is the only girl who “gets” him.
Then he started going into detail about how well she treated him, how he was doing in college and how he was going to get a good job, how his family had money, all sorts of things like this! Can you imagine if love worked this way?
If you could convince someone to love you by sending them a dossier on the advantages of being in a relationship with them, then the world would be full of guys learning how to write great reports to send to supermodels!
Love cannot be ignited, or re-ignited, by logic. Love just happens.
Do you think that if people were in love with each other by logic, some girls would date guys who treat them like dirt, cheat on them constantly, and generally don’t care? Of course not!
Love is an emotional feeling, and if you want to get it back, you need to rekindle the emotion he felt for you when you were together.
Lucky for you, guys are pretty simple beings. Girls can easily sway us if they know what they’re doing, and you can easily learn how to get it back using the methods I’m about to show you.
First, you need to start rediscovering enjoyment in your life. Start connecting with your friends and update your Facebook profile whenever you’re out and about or doing something cool.
By indirectly showing your ex boyfriend that you’re not just depressed, desperate for his attention, he’ll realize that you’re an independent girl and you don’t need him as much as he thought.
Next, you need to let your ex boyfriend know that you have accepted the breakup. This doesn’t mean walking up to him and saying, “I’m glad we’re not dating.” It means admitting that the relationship wasn’t working and that you need some time apart.
What you do NOT want to do is spill your emotional guts all over the place, as that is a huge turnoff.
Once you start applying these initial steps, you’ll be ready for the re-attraction process, which is where you really learn how to get him back for good. But what is the re-attraction process?