The first date is a very crucial moment, because it is the initial moment in which you personally meet the woman you like. And I’m sure you don’t want to screw it up because if you screw it up, you won’t get a second chance to change the first impression the woman had. So how should you act on the first date with the woman you like? Here are some tips.
The first thing to remember when meeting a girl for “a date” is that the date is not an interview. You’re not applying for a job (and neither is she), so don’t act like one. Don’t ask questions like “Where did you go to school?”, “Do you have brothers and sisters?”, “What kinds of things do you like to do for fun?”, etc. It is painful. It’s just the wrong thing to do. No wonder women sit together and complain about how hard it is to find an interesting guy in this world.
Remember that the goal of a first date is to make her more attracted to you and that women are not attracted to the same old, boring, predictable conversation. The attraction occurs when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery and “cocky and funny.” So if you want to create attraction instead of boredom, you’re going to have to learn a new way. You’re going to have to learn to talk about something else.
The trick to not talking about the “usual” things is to know how to keep the conversation interesting. Let me ask you, what are the most interesting topics for humans in general? Correct: drama, violence, scandal and comedy that hurts one of the parties involved. So talk about it! Here’s a sampling of good conversation ideas that come to mind: “So what about The ‘Osbournes’ being MTV’s #1 show of all time? It’s on TV, too.”
That topic will light up a conversation like nobody’s business. And they create all kinds of opportunities to be cocky and funny while talking about the misfortunes and neurotic behavior of others. The trick is that you have to remember that you are not there to impress her and that you are not in a job interview.
Here’s a point to remember: the more you appear nervous, forced, and awkward, “like you’re trying to impress her and get her approval,” and like you don’t want to say anything that might cause her to disapprove of you. , you are less likely to trigger that all-important attraction within her.