Are you wanting him to fall in love with you? Do you want your man to hurry up and realize that you are the one for him? Is he a little slow to pick up on your need for commitment? You are not alone! There are many proven ways to capture your man’s heart forever and make him fall in love with you. It is easier than you think!
One thing you should know before going any further, once a guy falls in love, he tends to fall in love a lot. Men love to be in love. When they find their true love, they give it their all. If you’re sure you’re ready for this level of commitment from your guy, keep reading.
It is a difficult world we live in today. In many cases, the roles in the relationship are reversed and the woman earns more than the man, which can leave men wondering what the purpose of the relationship is. Maybe you or your guy grew up in a role-reversed family and secretly long for the good old days when a guy went out to work while his girl stayed home. One thing is for sure, the old rules seem to have gone out the window and left a trail of confusion in their place.
Find out what you want. Are you the career type or do you dream of being a stay at home mom? Be honest with yourself, we are talking about the rest of your life. Once you know what your true calling is, move on to thinking about your boy. Does the woman in his dreams match the real you? If she is like that, great, it will be easy to make her fall for you. If not, maybe you should ask yourself why you’re trying to win her heart. If you want completely different things, he may not be the man for you.
If you’re sure you’ve got the right guy, let’s look at some easy ways to make him realize you’re the one for him. The world may be a different place these days, but deep in our hearts we all know that the old ways work better when it comes to love.
He wants to see that you are making an effort for him. Make sure you dress well, take care of your appearance, and really think about what your appearance is telling you. If you know he likes you to dress a certain way, go along with it. To make sure he’s noticed the effort you’ve put in for him, ask him if he likes your outfit. He’ll appreciate that you’ve considered his opinion on something as personal as your clothing.
Although you don’t want to be overdressed, make an effort with your hair and makeup. He can wait until you’re married and have two kids to see you teary-eyed and shaggy-haired, because now you need to look as beautiful and healthy as possible to help win him over. Use conditioners on his hair to give it a brilliant shine, and be sure to cut it regularly. Invest in some good skin care products. Exfoliate in the shower to keep your skin soft. Always wear some makeup and use your makeup game on your best features.
Have fun with it! Smile, laugh, add sunshine to your day. Steer the conversation toward fun things you can do together to help him see you as a more permanent part of his life. Avoid conversations about commitment, moving in together, or how many children you want, as this can come across as too strong. These topics will come up naturally as he falls in love with you and your relationship deepens. You don’t need to push it.
Don’t be too obvious about your motives, you don’t want to scare him off. If you constantly tell him that you love him, he might panic and try to calm things down between you. Instead, use the word ‘love’ in other ways. ‘I love spending time with you’. “I love how we laugh at the same things.” Introduce the word into your everyday language in a non-threatening way and when you finally tell him that you love him, it will seem like the most natural thing in the world.
Be patient. Remember that guys don’t like to be rushed. They like to think that they make all the important decisions, this is a fact that hasn’t changed with today’s roles! You want to make sure to give his ego a little massage every time you see him, it will make him feel good about himself and he will want to spend more time with you and deepen the relationship.
If you keep things light-hearted this way, it will be easy to make him fall in love with you. Enjoy each other’s company, enjoy life together, and avoid heavy and stressful talk about commitment. Before you know it, you won’t have to make him fall in love with you. He will have fallen in love with you all by himself.